Text: James 3:14–16

"But if ye have bitter envying and strife in your hearts, glory not, and lie not against the truth. This wisdom descendeth not from above, but is earthly, sensual, devilish. For where envying and strife is, there is confusion and every evil work."

Introduction

Envy is one of the most silent, poisonous forces in human relationships. It can hide behind a smile, a handshake, or even a “congratulations.” But if you’re spiritually alert, you can discern it before it causes harm. The Bible teaches us not just to recognize envy in ourselves—but also to detect it when it’s operating through someone else toward us.

Jesus said in Matthew 10:16: “Behold, I send you forth as sheep in the midst of wolves: be ye therefore wise as serpents, and harmless as doves.” Wisdom is not paranoia—it’s spiritual awareness.

Point 1 – Understanding the Nature of Envy

Proverbs 14:30 says, “A sound heart is the life of the flesh: but envy the rottenness of the bones.”
Envy is not merely wishing you had what someone else has; it’s resenting them for having it.

• Jealousy says, “I want what you have.”

• Envy says, “I wish you didn’t have it at all.”

The enemy loves to use envy to destroy friendships, break families, and hinder ministries.

Point 2 – Signs of Envy from a Person

You can often discern envy by watching for subtle patterns:

1. Backhanded compliments – They say something “nice” but it’s laced with sarcasm or a hidden jab.

2. Silent celebration of your failures – They seem more talkative when you’re struggling than when you’re succeeding.

3. Withholding support – They distance themselves when blessings come your way.

4. Shifting the spotlight – When you share good news, they quickly share their own to outshine yours.

Scripture: Genesis 37:4 – Joseph’s brothers envied him so much they could not speak peaceably to him.

Point 3 – How Envy Operates Spiritually

James tells us that envy is “earthly, sensual, devilish.” This means:

• Earthly: Rooted in the world’s competitive, comparison-driven mindset.

• Sensual: Feeds off emotions and fleshly desires.

• Devilish: Satan uses it to incite division, destruction, and even murder (Cain and Abel – Genesis 4:3–8).

Discernment comes from the Holy Spirit, who reveals what’s behind a person’s actions and words.

Point 4 – Responding to Envy Wisely

We are called to recognize envy, but not to become bitter in return.

• Pray for them – Matthew 5:44 says, “Love your enemies, bless them that curse you…”

• Guard your heart – Proverbs 4:23, “Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life.”

• Set healthy boundaries – Jesus loved all but did not entrust Himself to everyone (John 2:24).

• Stay humble – Pride fuels envy, but humility disarms it.

Point 5 – Let God Be Your Defender

You do not need to fight envy with fleshly weapons.
Psalm 37:1–3 says, “Fret not thyself because of evildoers, neither be thou envious against the workers of iniquity… Trust in the LORD, and do good.”

Joseph didn’t retaliate against his brothers; he trusted God’s plan. Eventually, the very ones who envied him needed the blessing God gave through him.

Conclusion

Envy is often a sign that God’s favor is visible on your life. The enemy stirs it up in others to discourage you, but remember: favor is not for flaunting—it’s for serving. Stay prayerful, stay watchful, and let the Holy Spirit sharpen your discernment.

Closing Prayer:
Father, give us eyes to see beyond the surface, ears to hear Your warnings, and hearts to remain pure even when confronted with envy. Help us to respond with grace, wisdom, and humility, and to trust You as our shield and defender. In Jesus’ name, Amen.