The good news is that although sin brought separation and death, God provided salvation and restoration through Jesus Christ!

1 Corinthians 13:13 (KJV)

"And now abideth faith, hope, charity, these three; but the greatest of these is charity."

You cannot blame somebody else for what God has called you to take responsibility for.  

Galatians 6:5

“For every man shall bear his own burden.”